Everywhere you look these days someone is talking about beauty and someone else is also there talking about all of our misconceptions about beauty.
Take for example this video Dove put out. I think that almost all women have some body dismorphia. We see flaws that aren't really there.
We probably all think this way because there are so many mixed messages we are given every day.
In one breath this beautiful OKC Thunder cheerleader is called chunky. She is a size 4. In her response to the blogger who criticized her appearance and put up a poll about it, who by the is a woman, Kelsey Williams stressed that women go through a lot every day in regards to their appearance. Read her full response here.
So if you are slightly larger than a supermodel, you are criticized. I fully support that this side of the coin gives every woman and every little girl a completely wrong idea of what is healthy and normal.
On the other side of that coin we tell much much larger women to just accept themselves the way they are. They are beautiful in their large bodies.
Society basically says if you are a size 2, you are good. If you are slightly larger you will be severely critized. If you are obese, you should just accept it.
Telling fat people it is ok to stay fat is wrong.
And yes, I'm going to start using the word fat in this post. A lot.
I believe that women come in all shapes and sizes. One shape, one size, is not better than another. You don't need to be a size 4, or a size 6, or even a size 12 to be beautiful.
If you are healthy.
With epidemic obesity in America it is time to start calling fat fat. It is time to say you need to see the working side of a treadmill. You should probably hit a Zumba class. Maybe shoving another Twinkie in your mouth as a chaser to that bag of Doritos is a really bad idea.
When we get so politically correct that we try to tiptoe around and try not to hurt anybody's feelings, we are letting all of those people down.
If someone I loved got cancer, I wouldn't say, "That's ok. Just accept yourself as you are. You and your cancer are beautiful."
I would tell them to fight. To get treatment. To eradicate the cancer that is KILLING them.
But if I have a friend that is fat, I can't do the same thing. I can't say you need to work hard to eradicate the FAT that is KILLING you.
If you look at the leading causes of death you see exactly what I am talking about. Four of the top 10 are directly related to obesity including number one.
- Heart disease: 597,689
- Cancer: 574,743
- Chronic lower respiratory diseases: 138,080
- Stroke (cerebrovascular diseases): 129,476
- Accidents (unintentional injuries): 120,859
- Alzheimer's disease: 83,494
- Diabetes: 69,071
- Nephritis, nephrotic syndrome, and nephrosis: 50,476
- Influenza and Pneumonia: 50,097
- Intentional self-harm (suicide): 38,364
Source: Center for Disease Control: Leading Causes of Death
When you tell an obese person that it's ok to be obese, that they are beautiful that way and don't need to try to lose weight, you are basically telling a smoker it's ok to keep smoking. That they smell great. It's ok for diabetics to stop using insulin. Their comas make them beautiful. It's ok for someone to commit suicide. In death they look so peaceful.
It's time to start calling fat fat and as a society it is time to start treating fat like what it is. Unhealthy. Undesirable. Diseased. Deadly.
I'm not advocating that you start going up to random people and calling them fat. But it would be a good idea to invite unhealthy people to participate in healthy activities. Encourage them to make healthy choices. Educate people on how to choose healthy food and how to get into shape.
We have to make the change as a society to advocate healthy and not just everyone is beautiful.
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